Daily Method of Operation

DMO: Walk & Talk

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# 1 Talking To Strangers
Starting a conversation with strangers is often something that is challenging for new people starting in the business.
There is a formula that will help you to get conversations started and have more success with talking about the business:
There are two things you need to master:
  1. the Greeting 
  2. the Qualifying
Rules for the Greeting:
  1. Draw attention to something removed … then 
  2. Draw attention to something connected to that person 
  3. Share something of yourself
For example… You might be sitting at a bus stop with someone and the weather is atrocious …. Remember rule # 1

  • You: “isn’t this weather disgusting!” (something removed) 
  • Them: “yes … so sick of this rain!” 
  • You: “You off to work?” (something connected) 
  • Them: “Yes” 
  • You: “Do you work in the city?” (something connected) 
  • Them: “Yes” 
  • You: “What do you do?” (something connected) 
  • Them: I work in a legal office 
  • You: Oh, that’s interesting – are you a lawyer? (something connected) 
  • Them: No, I’m a PA You: Do you like it? (Qualifying) 
  • Them: “oh its okay but its really long hours and it is sooo boring and I have a boss who is just outrageous!” 
  • You: Well, I guess it must pay well then … (Qualifying) 
  • Them: No, not really You: Then why do you stay? (Qualifying) 
  • Them: What else am I going to do? 
  • You: Well, if I could show you how to earn an extra $500 - $1000 per month, without affecting what you are doing now – would you be interested in having a look? (getting to the point!)

Remember that
  1. YOU are leading this conversation …. They don’t know that … and they don’t know where you are going … it’s a little bit like “join the dots” … 
  2. Be sincere – especially if you are complimenting as a method of starting a conversation. 
  3. Do need to share something of yourself along the way 
  4. You can’t go on to the qualifying without having built the rapport